top 3 fears/phobias that can prevent success in your relationship...

1 ---------> Pistanthrophobia...fear of trusting people...a person with this kind of fear may not opening up to their lover because of his/her past hurt/betrayal experiences, suspicious thoughts which turn into some actions (constant calling to check where his/her partner is, constantly starting unnecessary arguments, name calling, stalking behaviour etc), and feeling of losing their other half...

in my opinion, some couple have problem trusting their partner and almost all lovers out there afraid of losing their other half...and i dare to admit that i do had both...but is that mean i have pistanthrophobia??? i dont think so...because i am totally normal...

2 ---------> Philophobia....fear of falling in love...a person with this phobia had been hurt in the past and not knowing that their partner does love them back...it always come up with the fear of rejection...since they've been hurt before, they decided not to show their emotions again...

well...i do have fear of rejection...but fear of falling in love??? never...hehe...i do want to fall in love...eventhough i had been in a few break-ups doesnt mean my love stops there...my love continues...yeah love rawk!!!

3 ---------> commitment-phobia (commitorum-metus)...fear of commitment...scared of taking things to the next level, staying in a relationship too long, putting a title (boyfriend, girlfriend, fiancee, husband, wife...)...they will act irrationally, they may lie, cheat, or hurt their partner...and find ways to get out from the relationship before it gets serious...

huish...whomever have this kind of phobia, stop flirting...dont start love if u just want to end it...

# so dear readers, i do hope that you dont have any of the above phobia...i know you are normal like me...we dont have that kind of phobias...ye yea...

why now????

knpa bru skrg ko mau sy blik???

slma ni aku sdh bg ko pluang...aku siap tnya lg if ko mau kita blik mcm dlu...

tp ko nemau...

fine, aku trima ja...e2 kputusan ko...

tp bila aku da ada org len, sna la jua ko mau aku blik dgn ko...

pluang yg aku bg n ko sia2kn tu knapa???

ko mgaku ko bodoh n ko myesal tp da terlalu lewat...

aku da ada org len...

tlng la jan cuci fikiran sy dgn fikiran negatif ko...

tlng jan buruk2kn org len coz dri sendri pun x perfect..

if ko mc suka, sy x kesa..bkn sy x pduli tp apa yg sy blh bt??

sy bkn ats pgar mau pilih sepa...sy sdh bt pilihan...

mcm yg ko pena ckp dgn sy "if kita ada jodoh, nda ke mn jua tu..."

so if kita ada jodoh, nda ke mn jua tu...

sy nemau bg ko hrpn...n sy nemau elak ko...

so bt msa skrg, kta jd kwn dlu k...

*kena bt entri bm coz c kawan sorg tu kn nda fhm b.m...kesian dia...

5 persons that i love....

no.1 ---------> myself....well, i have to love myself more than i love anyone...this is my only self and this is my only live so it is my responsible to love every bit of me...i love u myself...

no.2 ---------> my parents...i live because of them...they give me life...they give me everything...i love u mom, n i love u dad...

no.3 ---------> my family....my sisters, my bros-in-law, my nieces, my nephews....i love them...they make my day more cheerful and more meaningful...with lots of characters, we can laugh all day....

no.4 ---------> my friends...when you are away from your family, your friends can be the closest family you will have...even if you are close with your family, your friends will be the one you find when you want to share things especially your love live, your dirty little secrets, etc..hehe

no.5 ---------> __________....this one is special...i let it blank and empty because i am waiting for someone that i will call The One to be my husband...im not sure who he is...so i have no name...eventhough i love someone but it doesnt mean that he is The One...yet...hehe

lelaki...hebat ka ko mau pukul perempuan???

yaaaa lelaki ketua kluarga, lelaki diciptakan kuat dr perempuan, so lelaki diciptakan untuk mjaga perempuan...

so???

kenapa jua lelaki kau pukul perempuan???

kau gila sudah ka??

# ya aku emo skrg....that particular lelaki has a name and that particular perempuan very close to me...even closer...

apa punca aku tak tau...

but whatever the reason is - LELAKI TAK PATUT PUKUL PEREMPUAN!!!!!!!

lelaki stress keja??? - hei...sepa yang tidak stress keja kn...tp stress keja pun that stress stays in the office ba...once u balik keja, and arrive home, pukul family ka??? e2 ka yg lelaki stress keja patut buat???

what else??? lelaki tak cukup duit??? - once lelaki jd suami, jd bapa...pandai2 la ba kan fikir pasal bini pasal anak...pasal tanggungjawab...duit gaji tu dahulukn la ba mana2 part yang penting...settle kn bil, makan minum for the whole family...if ada baki then p la berjoli if u want...but do remember to save some la...if x ckup utk diri sendri then pukul bini ka??

if ada problem pun, ada otak kn untuk fikir solutions...susah macam mana pun fikir kan la something untuk senangkan problem tu...dgn pukul bini blh selesaikan msalah ka??? klu dgn memukul something blh solve any kind of problems, aku rasa nada problem dalam dunia hr2...stress ja pukul bantal n keja balik...nada duit ja pukul bantal trus hujan duit...macam tu ka???

# aku tak faham kenapa lelaki ringan sgt mau angkat tangan...apa kau ingat kau kuat??? aku bkn la mau bawa bertumbuk ka apa...n aku pun yg benarnya nda mau msuk cmpur psal hal ni coz aku tau how tiny i am as the youngest in the family...but shit la if aku pandang remeh ja benda ni...

# to that particular lelaki, u lost my respect...u expect me to respect u again??? HELL-2-D-NO....