Thursday, August 11, 2011

top 3 fears/phobias that can prevent success in your relationship...

1 ---------> Pistanthrophobia...fear of trusting people...a person with this kind of fear may not opening up to their lover because of his/her past hurt/betrayal experiences, suspicious thoughts which turn into some actions (constant calling to check where his/her partner is, constantly starting unnecessary arguments, name calling, stalking behaviour etc), and feeling of losing their other half...

in my opinion, some couple have problem trusting their partner and almost all lovers out there afraid of losing their other half...and i dare to admit that i do had both...but is that mean i have pistanthrophobia??? i dont think so...because i am totally normal...

2 ---------> Philophobia....fear of falling in love...a person with this phobia had been hurt in the past and not knowing that their partner does love them back...it always come up with the fear of rejection...since they've been hurt before, they decided not to show their emotions again...

well...i do have fear of rejection...but fear of falling in love??? never...hehe...i do want to fall in love...eventhough i had been in a few break-ups doesnt mean my love stops there...my love continues...yeah love rawk!!!

3 ---------> commitment-phobia (commitorum-metus)...fear of commitment...scared of taking things to the next level, staying in a relationship too long, putting a title (boyfriend, girlfriend, fiancee, husband, wife...)...they will act irrationally, they may lie, cheat, or hurt their partner...and find ways to get out from the relationship before it gets serious...

huish...whomever have this kind of phobia, stop flirting...dont start love if u just want to end it...

# so dear readers, i do hope that you dont have any of the above phobia...i know you are normal like me...we dont have that kind of phobias...ye yea...

7 comments:

Cinoi said...

Kan. Kenapa mau fobia sangat. Do not afraid to make mistake. Mistake makes u more mature. Semua fobia pun susah.

✿ Mitchell ✿ said...

Macam ada Pistanthrophobia.. tp mcm enda la pla.. Normal mangkali sya ne tehee~

virgo19 said...

cinoi: btul2...semua fobia kin susah...hidup skali ja kn nda pyh mau takt...

mitchell: hehe e2 normal tu...:D

Aki said...

Hehe.. semat la.. hm,1 n 2 tu biasa sa dengar,tapi,still ada jalan penyelesaian dia..

tapi yang ke3 tu,macam tiada ubat tu tau.. Cara dia,betul,stop flirting.. Hahaha..

virgo19 said...

aki: kan...hehe better stop flirting....

dydue A'eN said...

i fear to be in relationship again. maybe it's the time for me to get to know myself. ^^

virgo19 said...

a'en: mesti u pena heartbroken b4 this kn...but its ok ba...u will find love 1 day...just chill...:D