Showing posts with label may-dec relationship.... Show all posts
Showing posts with label may-dec relationship.... Show all posts

Friday, September 2, 2011

summer tamat...maksudnya???!!!

maksudnya.......u.k kurang 1 jam...

some of u may think, "huh??? kurang 1 jam??? punya bjuta jam sna...sot ni org..."

well, hehe aku bkn la sot...tp during summer kn time difference between uk n msia is 7hrs...

time nw: 3.00am....means a month n 4hrs left before the summer ends in uk...and 4hrs left before it turns to 8hrs apart...

omg 8hrs apart nw??? damn...sigh....no no no....


we survived the 7hrs apart...and hopefully with billions of lucks we can survive 8hrs apart, yet again...

im crossing my fingers now...

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

LDR n aku...kmu sanggup ka ganti???

ola......

long distance relationship (ldr)...sure korg pun tau kn...

hr ni aku n dia ada date....tp yg kesiannya, date cuma d y.m ja....kesian kn...

apa punya date la knn tu kn...

well...

bg kmi e2 la date...

so, kmi trima ja la...

we r perfectly in love, but not in a perfect condition...where distance is the main culprit...damn...

he's my gra geal mo chroi (click if u want to know what it is n who he is...)

btw....
im not supposed to write in english...damn u friend...

kmi, beza msa = 7 jam
kmi, beza jarak = 6900 miles
kmi, msg rate (msia) = 0.20 sen/text (murah coz guna clcm)
kmi, kol rate (msia) = 0.88 sen/min (compare to other line clcm tetap murah)
kmi, kol rate (uk) = 45p/min

dia yg slalu kol...if sy kol dia tdo@dia keja...if dia yg kol, sy bgun...nada keja pa2 pun d rmh...

sbb beza msa tu, dia kol awal pg around 6am (msia) sna 11pm...bru ja dorg gelap...bygkn if sy kol jam 11pm sna jam 6am sure la x dpt kn coz dia tdo...nda pa la kn sy sacrifice msa pg since dia keja sy d rmh ja...takn mau pentingkn dri kn...

ada skali dia kol 35mins = £20...convert duit sni rm96...trus nda smpi ht knn ni sy suru dia kol...tp biar la ba kn da dia yg kol...

sepa2 yg mcm kmi ni, mmg kena tahan ht...LDR mcm ni, kmu sanggup??
beza msa jarak mcm ni punya teruk, kmu mau??
if kamu sanggup n kamu mau, meh kita tukar blh???
hehe bkn la aku nda sanggup n nda mau sdh...aku mc mau dong...
tp SUSAH.............................................................................................................
padan muka kn.......

klu kmu rsa kmu kena trust ur other half 100% then i have to trust him 200% with extra 20 makes it 220%.....
na kau, nda mampu da ni geng...
apa la x....dia kerap outstation, klu shari 2 nda pa ni 3 minggu...
klu stakat d uk, aku blh trima coz slalu jua dia outstation within uk utk sminggu....klu tmpt len dia p lma...
tym ni, byk la setan p bmanja dgn aku tu, trus ba tfikir apa la knn dia bt sna tu?? btul meh dia p keja?? etc..tp ada ku kesa??? nada....coz i have my 220% trust on him...

so msa dia outstation even within uk, aku nda la ba mau kcau...lgsg ni nda msg nda kol...if dia msg sy bls la, if dia kol sure la aku jwb...sepa la x kn...haha...dan aku nda akn fikir yg bkn2 coz aku knl sepa dia...

hjg thun ni dia bakal ada resort sendri, tp dia x bgtau sy d mn...a hint from him "resort tu dia beli coz dekat dgn sy"...walau d mn pun resortnya tu, makin la btambah dia busy kn...mkin ka ada masa utk sy??? hhhhmmmm knfm la nada...

apa2 pun stakat ni, nada problem...n aku pun nda akn minta problem...palis2 jau2...psal msa nda pa, sume beres kok...

cuma 1 ja aku hrp that my 220% of trust is worth the wait....


Sunday, August 14, 2011

whats ur opinion - may-december relationship...

may-december relationship refer to a relationship in which one partner is older than the other partner...

why may-december??? sorry im clueless...its just a term used to show huge age gap between the couple...

usually, this kind of relationship refer to a man being much older than his lover...but, it was then...now, there are some may-dec relationship where the woman is older than her lover..

does age really matter to you??

is your criteria for a girlfriend/wife/boyfriend/husband include the age?? not too young, not too old or same age??

may-dec pros include stability (for sure) and learning from one another...this relationship somewhat more stable because the older partner is more patient and forgiving (well, im not sure of this because there are man out there, i mean younger, who is patient and forgiving enough to his partner...) but maybe this relationship is more stable in terms of finance because the older partner (for sure) is financially successful...and since each partner is in a different stage of life (one partner is 40+ and the other is 20+), they can teach and inspire each other...

the cons, people, physical and family...people staring because a partner is older and the other partner is younger..they will think the younger (if a woman) is a gold digger...while physical, the younger is hitting his/her sexual prime while the older is far beyond it, do you believe it?? there is a saying somewhere on the internet "the physical is a big deal, if it isn't, why are you sleeping together at all??"...( but for me, when someone is in love, the love is unconditional...so they can accept their partner fully...for physical, there are ways to solve it...honestly i dont know how to solve it because im not into it yet...hehe)...for family, younger partner have to deal with his/her stepchildren while the older partner have to deal with the wife's/husband's family...the stepchildren may think that he/she want to replace their mom/dad while the family may treat the older partner as though he/she is having a mid-life crisis...

but, whatever the cons is, it is mainly about perception...how someone think about this kind of relationship...the positive will be great, the negative, hhhmmm will have to give them a chill pill so that they can chill, relax and more accepting hehe...

here's example of may-dec celebrity couples....

1 ---------> micheal douglas and catherine zeta jones (age difference = 25 yrs) still married



2 ---------> celine dion and rene angelil (age difference = 26 yrs) still married



3 ---------> ashton kutcher and demi moore (age difference = 15 yrs) still married



4 ---------> tom cruise and katie holmes (age difference = 16 yrs) still married



5 ---------> afen and you-know-who (age difference = +- yrs) =.=
(no pic...hehe)