Sunday, August 14, 2011

whats ur opinion - may-december relationship...

may-december relationship refer to a relationship in which one partner is older than the other partner...

why may-december??? sorry im clueless...its just a term used to show huge age gap between the couple...

usually, this kind of relationship refer to a man being much older than his lover...but, it was then...now, there are some may-dec relationship where the woman is older than her lover..

does age really matter to you??

is your criteria for a girlfriend/wife/boyfriend/husband include the age?? not too young, not too old or same age??

may-dec pros include stability (for sure) and learning from one another...this relationship somewhat more stable because the older partner is more patient and forgiving (well, im not sure of this because there are man out there, i mean younger, who is patient and forgiving enough to his partner...) but maybe this relationship is more stable in terms of finance because the older partner (for sure) is financially successful...and since each partner is in a different stage of life (one partner is 40+ and the other is 20+), they can teach and inspire each other...

the cons, people, physical and family...people staring because a partner is older and the other partner is younger..they will think the younger (if a woman) is a gold digger...while physical, the younger is hitting his/her sexual prime while the older is far beyond it, do you believe it?? there is a saying somewhere on the internet "the physical is a big deal, if it isn't, why are you sleeping together at all??"...( but for me, when someone is in love, the love is unconditional...so they can accept their partner fully...for physical, there are ways to solve it...honestly i dont know how to solve it because im not into it yet...hehe)...for family, younger partner have to deal with his/her stepchildren while the older partner have to deal with the wife's/husband's family...the stepchildren may think that he/she want to replace their mom/dad while the family may treat the older partner as though he/she is having a mid-life crisis...

but, whatever the cons is, it is mainly about perception...how someone think about this kind of relationship...the positive will be great, the negative, hhhmmm will have to give them a chill pill so that they can chill, relax and more accepting hehe...

here's example of may-dec celebrity couples....

1 ---------> micheal douglas and catherine zeta jones (age difference = 25 yrs) still married



2 ---------> celine dion and rene angelil (age difference = 26 yrs) still married



3 ---------> ashton kutcher and demi moore (age difference = 15 yrs) still married



4 ---------> tom cruise and katie holmes (age difference = 16 yrs) still married



5 ---------> afen and you-know-who (age difference = +- yrs) =.=
(no pic...hehe)

7 comments:

Akue Achik said...

one sentence : age is just a number.. :)

echaRierie said...

hee..my parent pn mcm ni jgk..my mum older than my dad..but love kn ? lahirla sy..smpai skrg msh berthn..
Alhamdulillah ~

agreed with achik !

Aki said...

Hm,si Aki sama si Sumandak,5 years.. Ok la juga.. :-p.. Hahaha..

virgo19 said...

ya lo...age is just a number...if 20 thun???

Aemy Shamy said...

love is blind...age is just a number and has got nothing to do in relationship ^^

Fadzmie Mohamad said...

Memang betul ayat si Acik di atas tu.

'Age is just a number'

Tapi for some people, mungkin that number does matter to them. Maybe because of ego, the history of their previous relationship, or something else (who knows). Kan? ;)

virgo19 said...

aemy & fadzmie: ya lo....age is just a number and nothing to do with relationship...but the stereotype gold digger tu ba yg kin benci...perception org ni yg outdated skit kli...tkena dgn dri sendri kn tula psl...huhu sedi ni...